| Heidi Roemer gathered her own memories and those of fellow writers
to share this portrait of Kathy:
It was just a simple green postcard displayed on her refrigerator,
but to Kathy O'Connor it was a beacon of hope.
"CHICKEN SOUP FOR THE GARDENER'S SOUL," it read, "is holding your
manuscript for further consideration."
As a dedicated children's writer, Kathy had received similar
cards before. Some turned into sales, some not. Her first sale
in 1990 was a humorous anecdote to Reader's Digest.
It was six years until her next sale, but Kathy never gave up.
She continued with her own writing, while reaching out in various
ways to help others.
As an SCBWI NETWORKS Representative, she helped schedule programs
for the South Suburbs NETWORKS. She was dedicated to her critique
group and often assisted other writer-friends with their manuscripts.
as well.
Amie Johnson remembers Kathy not only as a talented writer,
but as someone who gave the best critiques. "Once, after reading
my story," Amie shared, "Kathy asked for some clarification. She
listened intently as I gave my somewhat defensive account. 'That
makes sense,' she nodded. 'You obviously had the idea in your
head, but it didn't get onto the paper, right?' Kathy taught me
that if I had to explain things, then the manuscript still needed
revision. "Thanks to her tactfulness, I could laugh at myself.
Truly, laughter and joy were her greatest gifts."
Joan Unterberg shared that "what touched me most about Kathy
was her spirit. She loved SCBWI and writing so much. One Thursday
after our Coffee Shop meeting, three of us visited her in the
hospital. "At that point, Kathy was on morphine and had a feeding
tube; she was extremely weak. We made conversation by telling
her about the meeting and how everyone sent their best to her.
"Barely able to open her lips, I'm almost certain I heard Kathy
whisper, 'I wish I could have been there.' That was Kathy's spirit.
And it's Kathy's spirit that keeps me on task with my writing."
CHICKEN SOUP FOR THE GARDENER'S SOUL was published recently,
but Kathy's story wasn't included. If she were still with us,
she probably would have been disappointed. but in her wildest
dreams, Kathy never would have thought of quitting.
Ruth McGinnis, a reporter for The Regional News, once questioned
Kathy about her love for writing and how she handled the numerous
rejections. Kathy herself summed it up best: "I wrote what I thought
was a good story and I sent it to what I thought was the right
publisher. They rejected it and I didn't write again -- for six
hours. I've learned you can never give up hope."
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